Feel the Feels…

‘Feel the feels’ is usually associated with excitement and happiness, butterflies and all those good vibrations.

As I write this post, which is two days overdue, the feels I’m feeling are those others.

Exhaustion, frustration, annoyance and loneliness. A little, maybe a lot, sorry for myself. It comes after a week of sick kids, work demands, catching up on homework, dishes, washing, nagging and.. and.. and.

Initially, I hesitated to write and publish this post. Considering we’re still getting to know one another, you know – in the wooing phase.
And then I realised, this is life! If this is true for me then it could be true for so many others.

And so here I am. Saying, these are my feels right now.

It felt like this last night, it feels like this today and will probably tomorrow as well.

One of the valuable lessons from my journey is to feel ALL the feels. Because they’re all valid and necessary.

The trick though, is not to get stuck there. Which is easier said than done sometimes.

My practice that anchors me again, is flexing my faith muscle†
Talking to friends & family. Listening to music – Lianne La Havas will be on repeat! And trying to find some ease and rest. Practicing better self care.

To remember to take it one day at a time.

And to be gentle with myself.

God Bless,

Ray

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  1. Yep… just this morning I was “complaining” about being a Mom, being exhausted all.the.time… but loving the kid so much it hurts and still doing everything day in and day out. Because, well, you wouldn’t change a thing! Maybe more sleep. And a spa treatment every week… Maybe 😉 Kudos to you for doing all that on your own with FOUR girls ❤

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